If you're married or in a committed, long term relationship....

Have you started to notice that you and your partner go through the motions everyday?

You might even say the passion is gone and you want it back.

What happened?  Where did it go?  You were so in love when you first met!

You had hopes, dreams and expectations for your life together with this person.

Perhaps you are:

• Disappointed
• Bored
• Feeling trapped (especially during COVID)
• Feeling unappreciated

During the time you have been together, things have happened that you are stuck with.

Perhaps he:

• Forgot a holiday
• Didn’t give you what you hoped for
• Blew up at you or the kids
• ​​Said unkind things

You held a grudge and have not forgiven him.

How can you get that spark back?

In the last email I sent, you began to think about how to love yourself and the thing is, you will need to love him just as you love yourself if you want a renewed connection. 

Therefore, what you can do to create a closer relationship with your partner mirrors what you do to love yourself.

#1 Learn to forgive him for everything at all times.  
Everytime you want to make him wrong - just stop it.  Communicate what is not working, make requests and forgive.  We are all doing the best that we can.

#2  Write down everything that works about him and your life.
What do you love and appreciate about your life together?   What have you accomplished together?  What would your friends say works about your relationship?  What’s next?  What new adventures can you create?

#3  Ask yourself, what do I need from my partner and what does he need from me?

COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE  - This is the key to love in a relationship.
If you’re struggling to answer these questions - or you feel like you need support to generate a new spark of passion in your relationship on your own, 

...It’s time to schedule a Free Psych-K session.  

We’ll do a relationship balance with that person (he doesn’t have to be present - nor does he even need to know you’re thinking about this issue)...

which will leave both you and him in a balanced state with one another.
 
You’ll be shocked by how this process shifts your energy which often shifts the other’s energy, resulting in unexpected results.

You might have an experience like Christy.  We balanced her relationships with her mother and in the balance she wanted to hear her mother say, “I’m proud of the choices you’ve made in your life.”  Within days of this, her mother sent her a Valentine’s Day card with that exact sentiment written in it.  This is something her mother had never said before.  They talked on the phone later that week and had one of the best conversations ever!

What would you most like to hear from your partner?  What if you could hear it without him being present?  How might this change the energy between you?

Schedule a free PSYCH-K® session